don't want to use this blog as a platform to complain about my job, but dang. [redacted]. Instead, I will use this negative to come up with the first item on my list of Ways I Get By.
1) People being unreasonable at work? Call them out on it. Nicely. When they say something that doesn't make sense? Ask questions until they realize they are acting loony and emotional and stop the bad behavior. This worked today, and I felt pretty proud of myself. The hope of moving on has given me some courage.
2) Throw yourself headfirst into a new hobby. I have chosen sewing, and am going to start a class on Monday. I know people in the local fashion world, so I've called on them for advice.
3) Make new friends. I've made two new friends in the past 6 months that I hang out with at least once a week. Once a week means a lot to me, because everyone is so busy these days. I felt apathetic about meeting new people during my "We're just going to move as soon as something good happens so why even try waaaaaah" phase. This didn't help things.
4) Relax. I am not really good at this, but I'm making a point of being selfish and sitting on the couch to read while the spouse does house things. I used to think if I sat down, not as much would get done, but now I don't care as much. If I relax, I'm happier. If I'm happier, I don't feel like I have to have an iron fist around the house.
5) Remember that the spouse is amazing and you love him/her. Being sweet to someone makes you feel good. And then they're sweet back. And then you remember that though life seems like a huge stressor, at the middle of it all (well, from your perspective) is you and him.
6) Exercise. Yeah, that sucks right now, but you know you always feel better when it's done. But yeah, lots of suckage.
Flowers help, also penpals, walks with no purpose and beers.
(There's no read video, but good song)